How can I use my words to influence people in a positive way?

October 17th, 2009 | by admin |
positive words
Phil asked:


Well, I guess I have a way with words. I can change somebody’s feelings about something or someone, confuse them, or make them feel ashamed within a few sentences. I’ve made people cry by doing this because I lost my temper. But I want to learn how to use this in a positive way, I just can’t figure out how to do it. Even tips or suggestions would be helpful. Thanks in advance.
I’m not very old at all, I’m only 13. So I guess I have a pretty long way to go.

ORVILLE

  1. 4 Responses to “How can I use my words to influence people in a positive way?”

  2. By robert h on Oct 20, 2009 | Reply

    IT STRIKES ME THAT YOU ARE NOT ALWAYS SEARCHING FOR THE TRUTH. A WAY WITH WORDS IS JUST A WAY. THERE ARE MANY WAYS. BEST OF LUCK BOB

  3. By natluvr on Oct 20, 2009 | Reply

    Practice thinking positive thoughts and when you’re with people , try to avoid the use of negative words. If I, who was very negative for years, could turn it around, so can you. The first step is to try to smile a lot. It’s hard to feel bad with a smile on your face.

  4. By minnie on Oct 22, 2009 | Reply

    It is a gift - making someone look forward to going to Hell. Few can do it. But some can. I am one of them as well. I didn’t realize it until I almost died. When I had time to really examine myself and my life. I did not like what saw. Who I had become. Thank God he did not kill me when I prayed so vehemently about it. I was not saved. When I was able to walk again, I got myself up, got saved, and started volunteering with young girls. I now use my powers of influence to help direct them in a positive way. Not always in a religious way. Just in a life way. Sometimes all it takes is a seed. They will find their own way.

  5. By Maureen S on Oct 23, 2009 | Reply

    You can be an example. If you are compassionate, loving, kind, giving, non-judgemental, non-prejudice and to not fear or **** anyone, either for their religion or their race - then you will be an example of a strong, happy person, who people will look up to and admire. I believe that we all put out a certain energy. Havn’t you walked into a room full of people and felt uneasy. Have you met somebody and immediately liked them. By being the best you can be in this world, you will not only have a happy life but you will make those around you happy as well.

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